However, in order to properly lead the seduction, like all girls want, you will need to lead it – and in order to do so, you have to have your wits about you, you have to be rational and logical, losing control of the conversation will see your value drop faster than the stock market crash. It can be tough to spot if you are in the comfort zone too much – or in the escalation zone too much. Obviously depending on the girl, i personally like the girls that rev up as fast as me – because there’s less chance for you to blow it by talking too much.
And a simple little trick to remind yourself when engaged in seduction, is notice when you’re talking too much. Talking is the gina dryer. Even if you’re a miraculous wordsmith charmer like myself, you can still talk your way right out of pussy. If you are alpha to a girl, and she’s wanting to fuck you, you will betray that alphaness when you start motoring on about shit, thinking you are need to stay in a comfort zone because she’s afraid of your manliness and what you are going to do about it.