When out in the field, it is imperative that you are able to maintain the important balance of desire and rationality. I have an outrageous sexual appetite and like any addiction one can start jonesing bad – of course if you are jonesing you in desperation land and we all know what a dry poon desert that breeds. It can be hard not to get caught up in a seduction scenario, as it sends endorphins into your brain, and you can let it affect the flow of the evening – i believe you must allow this to happen to some degree in order to maintain the fantasy mirage for the woman – nothing makes a girl feel more comfortable than seeing a man in tune with her feelings and urges, and matching them, and leading her to the inevitable conclusion.

However, in order to properly lead the seduction, like all girls want, you will need to lead it – and in order to do so, you have to have your wits about you, you have to be rational and logical, losing control of the conversation will see your value drop faster than the stock market crash. It can be tough to spot if you are in the comfort zone too much – or in the escalation zone too much. Obviously depending on the girl, i personally like the girls that rev up as fast as me – because there’s less chance for you to blow it by talking too much. And a simple little trick to remind yourself when engaged in seduction, is notice when you’re talking too much. Talking is the gina dryer. Even if you’re a miraculous wordsmith charmer like myself, you can still talk your way right out of pussy. If you are alpha to a girl, and she’s wanting to fuck you, you will betray that alphaness when you start motoring on about shit, thinking you are need to stay in a comfort zone because she’s afraid of your manliness and what you are going to do about it.

Comfort can be a quick line, of letting her know, that if she gets uncomfortable its ok for her to stop. Her rationalization computer will compute alphaness - it simply takes away her need to have her shields up, because you laid it out that its okay for her to emote as she wants and express it. This of course will land you up her skirt almost immediately. It also shows that you don’t really care if she leaves, you just want to have a good time. This should be your frame always.

In order to keep this mindset, you need to have the balance of sexual energy and your rational analytical mind working together in unison. I call team pussy. The two heads. One pulls, the other pushes. No matter what the chick says, you are the one who works her up, not the other way around. Get good at it. And march on soldiers.